Bonding between parents and children can’t be measured in levels but is defined by love and empathy.
To every single parent, maintaining better relationship with kids has never been as simple as ABC or a ‘piece of cake’ due to their delicate, inexperienced and immature emotions. Most children don’t interpret what they observe and feel, however, more likely to react in the most spontaneous way to what they see instead. They understand things just the way they feel, thus, dealing with them requires smart parenting; patience, kindness and affection. Overall, maintaining good ties with children isn’t any lesser than a “hard nut to crack”.
Despite of all odds, there is always a solution to every unpleasant situation. What matters the most is to make them feel that you care for them, you love and consider them as a precious jewel you wear around your neck. This is the right way to achieve trust and having a healthy relationship with them.
Respect their feelings and choices, It will generate a mutual respect between both parties. Parents need to make kids a priority in life irrespective of any circumstances; good or bad, depressive or cheerful. It is through them the mankind ahead; they are the essential links in the continuity of human race.
Primarily, the most essential aspect of parenting is to understand your children from the depth of heart and brains and cultivate a relationship of mutual respect within the family. It is necessary for every parent to establish healthy and better connections with them, specifically, in order to interfere and influence the grooming process of growing kids. In most occasions, when children feel affection towards parents, they might feel the obligations to follow the parental advice, without having any sense of domination or psychic pressure from their wellsprings. The depth of parental love and affection towards their offsprings can contribute in eradicating the lines of hesitation, fear and distance between parents and children in a way to mentor and encourage good behaviour among kids at home and outside. The youth of today is the future of tomorrow, help them grow liberal, it’ll keep their spirit high.
– Sumayya Shireen